Expand your relationship coaching with Human Design chart comparison

As a Human Design coach, you often work one-to-one. But the kinds of issues Human Design resolves, such as how two people make decisions, communicate and recharge differently, are particularly relevant to couples. A chart comparison makes those differences visible rather than just something to discuss.

You can embed the free comparison tool from whatismyhumandesign.org on your own site so couples can see their shared dynamic before the session. During the session itself, you build on that output. View the embed codes and installation instructions for each platform.

Why a chart comparison is more effective than a conversation

In a traditional relationship session, you spend a lot of time on diagnosis: what exactly is stuck between you? A Human Design chart comparison provides that diagnosis in five minutes. You see electromagnetic connections, dominant Channels, energetic compromises and open Centres that the other person fills.

The difference is psychologically important for the couple: the problem is externalised. Not 'you always do this, I always do that', but 'your definition here, my openness there'. That takes the emotional charge out of the conversation and creates room for concrete agreements.

Three session formats that work

Coaches who use Human Design for relationship work usually follow one of these three formats:

One-off insight session (90 min): chart comparison + three concrete patterns + one practical agreement
Three-part programme: session 1 individual charts, session 2 comparison, session 3 application to a current theme
Pre-marital or pre-cohabitation package: comparison + workshops on decision-making and household energy

How to fit the embed into your process

Place the comparison tool on a separate page, such as /relatie or /koppel-coaching. Ask the couple to enter their details before the session. The comparison output arrives by email for them, and optionally for you through screen sharing or forwarding.

Open the session with the comparison on a large screen or shared screen. Start with what stands out energetically (electromagnetic connections, compromises), then move to the theme they bring, and finish with one to three practical experiments for the coming weeks.

Pricing and packages

Relationship sessions can be priced higher than individual sessions because two people benefit and the output can be applied immediately. Many coaches charge 1,5 to 2x the rate of an individual session of a similar length.

A package of three sessions (individual, comparison, application) often sells for €450 to €750 in the Dutch market. The free comparison tool as an introductory offering significantly lowers the barrier to booking that package.

Example: from an individual practice to a couples niche

A coach from Amsterdam spent years offering almost exclusively individual Human Design sessions. After adding the comparison embed to a new /samen page, she received ten enquiries for couples sessions in two months, all from visitors who came through the tool.

She developed a three-part package priced at €595 and generated €5.355 in extra revenue in the first quarter, alongside her existing practice. More importantly, couples refer other couples, something individual clients rarely do.

Add the embed to your own site in two minutes

The Human Design calculator and comparison tool are free to embed. One line of iframe code, no plugin, no account.

View the embed codes

Frequently asked questions

Can I view both charts before the session?

The couple receives the comparison by email and can forward it, or you can open the tool together at the start of the session through screen sharing. A coach dashboard with saved comparisons is on the roadmap.

Does the comparison also work for professional relationships or business partners?

Yes. The comparison output focuses on energy and is not tied to any business context. Coaches use it successfully for business partnerships, co-founders and even parent-child dynamics.

Do I need both partners to sign up separately?

No, you enter both sets of birth details at the same time in the comparison tool. One email address for the result is enough. You can still request both partners' contact details separately for your intake records.

Does this fit into a broader relationship coaching service, not just Human Design?

Absolutely. Many relationship coaches use Human Design alongside their existing approach (EFT, Imago, systemic coaching) as a diagnostic tool in the first session. It integrates easily without requiring you to give up your main method.

How much does the comparison embed cost?

Nothing. Like the individual calculator, the comparison tool is free to embed on your site. No subscription, no account, no limit on the number of comparisons.