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    How Tim (MG 6/2) made parenting feel lighter

    By Anna de Vries

    From an exhausted dad to a present parent in the evenings.

    Where Tim felt stuck

    Tim came home at half past five and immediately wanted the children to 'do something'. They wanted to play rough-and-tumble instead. Within half an hour, there was an argument.

    He blamed himself for being a bad parent.

    What stood out in the chart

    As an MG, Tim has plenty of energy, but he needs to recharge by winding down at the end of the day, not switching straight back on.

    His 6/2 profile needs time alone to reset before he can care well for others.

    What Tim started doing differently

    • Spent twenty minutes alone after coming home, walking or showering.
    • The children knew that 'dad is recharging' had a fixed place in the day.
    • Used a Sacral check: what do I want to do now? If the answer was 'rough-and-tumble', he played. If it was 'reading', he read.

    What changed

    Evenings became calm. After a month, his eldest said, 'dad isn't angry any more'.

    His partner adopted the ritual too. Both parents were available in the evenings.

    What you can take away from this

    Caring well for children starts with caring for yourself. Twenty minutes to decompress is not a luxury; it is a prerequisite.

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    A composite example based on coaching sessions and conversations with readers. The name and details are fictional to protect privacy.

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